SORT OUT WHO MATTERS TO YOU

"ONLY YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR FUTURE"

Image Source : Google

It's only human to want things/people that are not good for us.  

Distance yourself from people who are not helping you build yourself as 

a person. Those type of people should be nowhere in your life except 

your PAST.

Recently, we have been discovering who we really are and are dreams 

and aspirations for the future.  Although, they seem to be really high, 

we don't plan to be at the mercy of our parents forever (Well who 

does?). It's important to note that life gives you what you make out of 

it.

By sorting out who matters to you in life , it is essential to spend some 

quiet time with yourself and assess where you want to be in life and 

figure out the people who are making a conscious effort to help you 

achieve you dreams and sieve them from the one's interested in gossip 

and only love to hang around you when the going is good.

In terms of relationships, when you realise a man is taking advantage

of you a.k.a side chick, friends with benefits and all that type of stuff 

that really has no foundation, it's plain and simple... IT'S A WASTE OF 

TIME. You need to consciously remember that time is money. The more 

time you spend chasing fireflies, you are wasting time that could be 

used to do something productive. To top it off, it's stresses you out. SO

 WHAT'S THE POINT REALLY??

As an individual, it's important to be spirit filled to a certain extent so 

you can be led in the right direction. Of course we know everyone is not 

religious and we definitely respect that. But spending some quiet time 

with yourself is valuable and can lead you to finding your sense of 

direction in life.

There is only one chance in life to live so it's BEST you do it right. When 

you are with the RIGHT people in life there is always motivation or an 

urge to do things the right way because people who matter to you and 

vice versa tell the TRUTH most of the time.

Don't be naive and defensive over the wrong things in life. At a certain 

point in life, we all know what's right and whats wrong. As well as the 

people who should matter to you and people who shouldn't. But most 

times, we shy away  from reality and this eventually leads to our 

downfall because they were enough signs to show you who certain 

individuals REALLY are.

STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF!

OLI AND LOLA

XO