IF YOU COULD REDO THINGS WOULD YOU MARRY THEM AGAIN?????
This is a question we asked a few married people and the answers came up scattered, some men said yes they would and others said no they wish they had chosen wisely. The person you married might not be what you thought she was; some women turn out to not be the sweet female you were exposed to during the dating stage.
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IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER
Now as we go into this article you must understand that we are not saying women are one sided; women can have several emotions and some women express each emotion to the extreme and this does not mean that she is deceptive and evil.
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'BEAUTY IS FLEETING AND CHARM IS DECEITFUL'
THE ONES WHO SAID YES THEY WOULD MARRY THE SAME LADY AGAIN
*They took their time getting to know the girl and seeing her personality through and through. These men said that they removed the starstruck eyes and really stepped back and looked at the person they were dating with 'clear' vision. This allowed them to see the woman for what she really was not what they wanted her to be. The personality test- some of the men even went as far as testing their partner's personalities under different situations to see what she really reacts like when she has lost her charming smile and tender eyes lol.
* The other common answer these men gave was they actually spoke to the ladies they were pursuing about their future plans. They assessed what was important in their own nearby future and asked these ladies WHAT DO YOU HOPE FOR THE FUTURE without revealing what they hoped for. Now the answers these women provided were not fully satisfactory for some men and some as these men further went to test their woman's answer to see whether they were lying or being truthful.
HOW?? YOU ASK LOL.
EXAMPLE - One man's wife said she wanted kids in the nearby future; the man tested the women by having her babysit 4 of his nieces and watched her reaction and how she handled the task. But he also said that just because the woman might seem keen for the task doesn't now mean you rush and marry her; you have to watch how well she looks after the kids and the analogy he used was ALL WOMEN WANT THE JOB BUT NOT ALL WOMEN ARE FIT FOR THE JOB.
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THE ONE'S WHO SAID NO THEY WOULD NOT
Now as we go into this article you must understand that we are not saying women are one sided; women can have several emotions and some women express each emotion to the extreme and this does not mean that she is deceptive and evil.
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'BEAUTY IS FLEETING AND CHARM IS DECEITFUL'
THE ONES WHO SAID YES THEY WOULD MARRY THE SAME LADY AGAIN
*They took their time getting to know the girl and seeing her personality through and through. These men said that they removed the starstruck eyes and really stepped back and looked at the person they were dating with 'clear' vision. This allowed them to see the woman for what she really was not what they wanted her to be. The personality test- some of the men even went as far as testing their partner's personalities under different situations to see what she really reacts like when she has lost her charming smile and tender eyes lol.
* The other common answer these men gave was they actually spoke to the ladies they were pursuing about their future plans. They assessed what was important in their own nearby future and asked these ladies WHAT DO YOU HOPE FOR THE FUTURE without revealing what they hoped for. Now the answers these women provided were not fully satisfactory for some men and some as these men further went to test their woman's answer to see whether they were lying or being truthful.
HOW?? YOU ASK LOL.
EXAMPLE - One man's wife said she wanted kids in the nearby future; the man tested the women by having her babysit 4 of his nieces and watched her reaction and how she handled the task. But he also said that just because the woman might seem keen for the task doesn't now mean you rush and marry her; you have to watch how well she looks after the kids and the analogy he used was ALL WOMEN WANT THE JOB BUT NOT ALL WOMEN ARE FIT FOR THE JOB.
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THE ONE'S WHO SAID NO THEY WOULD NOT
*Even piranha's will smile if the occasion needs it* words of a ex husband
These men were the type who jumped straight into the deep end of the pool without testing out the kiddy pool. They rushed into married and commitment based on lust and the honeymoon stage and failed to really see whether their partner was a true match for them or not. They didn't see the extremes of the relationships.
They confused extreme liking for loving so eventually the relationship run dry. We truly LOVE people very rarely in our entire life, and most people especially these men said they did not fall in love with these women they ended up divorcing and in actuality they still do not know what real unconditional love is.
ADVICE THEY OFFERED- Ask people who are close and also not close to you and her to give you an HONEST opinion of the person you are considering marrying. Really take time to HEAR what they are saying and DISCERN the deeper meaning of their words.
IF SHE IS OUT THERE MAKING OTHER FEMALES CRY AND UNHAPPY THEN MAYBE SHE ISN'T AS NICE AS YOU THOUGHT --we know this one might sound strange but some women are evil enough to make grown women cry.
IF YOU SEEM TO BE LOSING FRIENDS OR LOVED ONES SINCE YOU STARTED SEEING HER THEN MAYBE SHE ISN'T THE RIGHT ONE.
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THIS IS THE PERSON YOU MIGHT SPEND YOUR WHOLE ENITRE LIFE WITH - WE ENCOURAGE YOU TO TAKE YOUR TIME.
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MAKE IT TO THE END
GOOD LUCK MEN
OLIANDLOLA
XO
These men were the type who jumped straight into the deep end of the pool without testing out the kiddy pool. They rushed into married and commitment based on lust and the honeymoon stage and failed to really see whether their partner was a true match for them or not. They didn't see the extremes of the relationships.
They confused extreme liking for loving so eventually the relationship run dry. We truly LOVE people very rarely in our entire life, and most people especially these men said they did not fall in love with these women they ended up divorcing and in actuality they still do not know what real unconditional love is.
ADVICE THEY OFFERED- Ask people who are close and also not close to you and her to give you an HONEST opinion of the person you are considering marrying. Really take time to HEAR what they are saying and DISCERN the deeper meaning of their words.
IF SHE IS OUT THERE MAKING OTHER FEMALES CRY AND UNHAPPY THEN MAYBE SHE ISN'T AS NICE AS YOU THOUGHT --we know this one might sound strange but some women are evil enough to make grown women cry.
IF YOU SEEM TO BE LOSING FRIENDS OR LOVED ONES SINCE YOU STARTED SEEING HER THEN MAYBE SHE ISN'T THE RIGHT ONE.
THIS IS THE PERSON YOU MIGHT SPEND YOUR WHOLE ENITRE LIFE WITH - WE ENCOURAGE YOU TO TAKE YOUR TIME.
MAKE IT TO THE END
GOOD LUCK MEN
OLIANDLOLA
XO
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