DO YOU SCARE OFF MEN?

- DO YOU SCARE OFF MEN -

* Please don't , it's just NOT cool and doesn't speak well of you either *

- 5 REASONS -

Being too intense is sometimes the wrong approach. Keep the intensity of what you feel about the guy to yourself. Give it time before you start expressing true feelings. The guy needs to process his feelings about you. Don't let him think you are a psychopath because all you ever do is tell him how much you love him and how much you can't live without him. Basically obsessing over him and your not even in ANY sort of relationship can be detrimental. Don't do too much too soon.

Being feminine goes a long way. You don't have to over do it but being manly can sometimes be unattractive to the opposite sex. Guys still appreciate felinity to a certain extent a lot more than 'ms. mature'. Try and be gentle rather than exerting your manly qualities like arm wrestling, opening bottles with your teeth, behaving gangsta. It sometimes can be a major turn off exerting thug life features.

Talking about what you don't want. Basically laying down the rules for the man. Talk more about what you want in a positive manner. Communicate your ideas constructively. Positive reinforcement goes a long way. Don't start him off with how you can't marry someone poor, someone who cheats.... that's just beating a dead horse. It's a verbal mistake a lot of women make.

Being needy is just not cool. No one wants to be with a needy person in all honesty. Don't bug him with messages all day long, phone calls day in - day out. Everyone needs their own space. If you call and he doesn't pick, kindly call it off after the 3rd phone call because it then becomes ridiculous UNLESS it's an emergency and in most cases there isn't any emergency. Give him some breathing space and some time to actually MISS you. Cut being possessive it's just an unattractive trait.

Carrying emotional baggage and being desperate certainly scares men away from you. You can't be showing a man that you are not over your past relationships yet because it will begin to affect him sooner or later. Being desperate just shows you need a vacuum in your life to be filled and you'll do this at any cost not necessarily because you like him.

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The best way to attract a good man is being the best YOU can be.

A good man will commit if he feels you will make his life better and your presence in his life will bring positivity.

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