HOW TO CREATE YOUR IDEAL RELATIONSHIP

"TAKE YOUR TIME BECAUSE RELATIONSHIPS THAT START FAST END FAST"



What does it mean to be in an ideal relationship?
If you think being in an ideal relationship means happy days forever without misunderstandings, then we would like to think that you are wrong. An ideal relationship keeps itself strong in the good  and bad times. The loyalty in the relationship never wavers. Always try to understand your partner because it's not always about you. We all have our selfish moments, but when it's beginning to consume your partner in the relationship, that's an indicator that something is clearly wrong.

"Find someone who changes your life positively not just your relationship status"


HANDLE DISPUTES IN A DIGNIFYING MANNER
During an argument, give your partner time to talk so he/she cane get the point across. Afterwards, take a deep breath and reply constructively. Whoever is in the wrong at the end of the dispute, needs to acknowledge his/her fault be corrected in love and the relationship can genuinely continue like nothing happened. Handling disputes in this manner in our opinion is a must must! It's hard to do this sometimes, but relationships are mysterious like that, there has to be a calm approach to amending situations and settling disputes. Relationships are mysterious like that. Lol! 



THE ABILITY TO TELL YOUR PARTNER HOW YOU REALLY FEEL
If your relationship is valuable and the love runs deep, this should come naturally. In some cases, some partners even though they aren't mind readers... lol can actually sense what exactly is wrong with their partner. I guess it's some sort of connection that grows over time in the relationship. Some of us suffer from trust issues but it should be okay to tell your partner how you really feel when it's necessary. Chances are when you do this, the relationship gets closer and in some cases deeper.

"Keep calm and build relationships"


HAVE THE ABILITY TO LOVE
What's life without love? It's incredible to love and be loved back, nothing is more awesome than mutual love. That's an ideal relationship itself because the feelings are mutual. Love whole heartedly with no conditions and your relationship will have a STRONG base. All relationships go through hell but REAL relationships with love get through it. Never ever underestimate the power of love.


PRAY
A couple that prays together stays together. It's important to be spiritually inclined in life because it creates a positive ora within the relationship with some supernatural power. It's also relieving to know that God has got you both and he will guard and protect your relationship. Don't undermine what prayers can do... It's the best way to draw strength from heaven.


TIME AND PATIENCE
Being patient can be hard sometimes, but in order to maintain an ideal relationship, you have to possess patience. Although it can be time - consuming, it always guides you on the best way to sort things out.  Sorting out issues becomes much easier with patience. Patience is an essential ingredient in creating an ideal relationship. Also, try as much as possible to stay true to your promises and if you know you can't, don't bother making them.


"No relationship is all sunshine, but two people under one umbrella can survive a storm together".

OLI AND LOLA
xo

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