ABSTAINING FROM SEX ???
This is a tough tough challenge but OLIANDLOLA your OL IN OL lifestyle blog is here to help lol.
3 steps to help get through
1 - Make sure the reasons for making the decision is fully internalised and thought out and has a strong foundation, other wise you will fail. This step is key. Whatever you decision for doing this needs to be one that can keep you on the correct path even when challenged with extreme temptation. Also in addition to this the company you keep will be a key influence to whether you fail or not. Try and be around people who will encourage you and understand your personal journey and do not try to entice you. This might mean removing some people in your life who you know will not help the journey. Also if the decision has a strong foundation this helps in them odd moments when temptation kicks in.
2 - Occupy your mind on things that are of a non sexual nature. This can be hard especially since we live in a sex driven culture where everything and anything has hints of sexual connotations. You might feel strange taking this journey but you will be surprised to know that it is mostly western culture which heavily places emphasis on an active sex life.You will come to find that even watching films can be difficult and sitting in the same room with someone you are attracted to will be much harder as the sexual tension is far more intense. We recommend alone time or activities such as sport, self improvement etc. Celibacy is a great way to improve mental power and attempt to block out the perverted and replace such thoughts with more important things.
3 - It gets easier - Take time to establish a life without sex. If you are religious this is much easier as you can look to your religion for tips on sexual purity and strict scriptures which will entice guilt if you feel the need to cave in lool. 1 Corinthians 6:18 - FLEE FROM SEXUAL IMMORALITY. ALL OTHER SINS A PERSON COMMITS OUTSIDE THE BODY, BUT WHOEVER SINS SEXUALLY, SINS AGAINST THEIR OWN BODY. For Christians if that doesn't entice guilt and make you want to keep on the journey of celibacy then we do not know what will. lool. You need to establish a life without sex especially if your life has regularly revolved around the act. This will take time but can be rewarding if you manage to pull through.
OLIANDLOLA
XO
1 - Make sure the reasons for making the decision is fully internalised and thought out and has a strong foundation, other wise you will fail. This step is key. Whatever you decision for doing this needs to be one that can keep you on the correct path even when challenged with extreme temptation. Also in addition to this the company you keep will be a key influence to whether you fail or not. Try and be around people who will encourage you and understand your personal journey and do not try to entice you. This might mean removing some people in your life who you know will not help the journey. Also if the decision has a strong foundation this helps in them odd moments when temptation kicks in.
2 - Occupy your mind on things that are of a non sexual nature. This can be hard especially since we live in a sex driven culture where everything and anything has hints of sexual connotations. You might feel strange taking this journey but you will be surprised to know that it is mostly western culture which heavily places emphasis on an active sex life.You will come to find that even watching films can be difficult and sitting in the same room with someone you are attracted to will be much harder as the sexual tension is far more intense. We recommend alone time or activities such as sport, self improvement etc. Celibacy is a great way to improve mental power and attempt to block out the perverted and replace such thoughts with more important things.
3 - It gets easier - Take time to establish a life without sex. If you are religious this is much easier as you can look to your religion for tips on sexual purity and strict scriptures which will entice guilt if you feel the need to cave in lool. 1 Corinthians 6:18 - FLEE FROM SEXUAL IMMORALITY. ALL OTHER SINS A PERSON COMMITS OUTSIDE THE BODY, BUT WHOEVER SINS SEXUALLY, SINS AGAINST THEIR OWN BODY. For Christians if that doesn't entice guilt and make you want to keep on the journey of celibacy then we do not know what will. lool. You need to establish a life without sex especially if your life has regularly revolved around the act. This will take time but can be rewarding if you manage to pull through.
OLIANDLOLA
XO
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