WHO WEARS THE PANTS?
Wearing the pants in the relationship refers to the dominant person in the relationship. It's usually the man that 'wears the pants' BUT in recent times, a lot of women have now begun to 'wear the pants' in the relationship.
*WHIPPED WHIPPED WHIPPED*
Some men will do ANYTHING for their women. Literally give their woman the world if she asked for it. But some women take this as a weakness of the man and before you know it, she is already wearing the pants in the relationship. This 7 letter dreaded word can make you become stupid in love. Although in relationships, communication is meant to be equal and mutual; there is usually one person in the relationship who has MORE control than the other. Being whipped as a guy will lead you to wearing the skirt in the relationship and it DOES happen A LOT.
*QUICK TO APOLOGIZE*
If there is a disagreement, if you are quick to apologise and smooth things over hastily, chances are that you are the weaker link in the relationship. It's usually the women who are emotional but if your man is doing this, he just might be the weaker one. Oh and yeah... The person who dropped the 'L' bomb first, before you were on his/her radar in that way, shows how much he/she is in touch with their feelings and usually unfolds in the relationship as the weaker link *oops*.
*IT'S ALL ABOUT THE BENJAMINS*
Who ever brings home the money is obviously the one wearing the pants most times. Sadly, women are mostly underpaid in the career world for what they do. Hence, more men earn a lot more than women. If you are the one dishing out the dough whichever way it works, then you are the one in control a.k.a wearing the pants.
*ARE YOUR FRIENDS HIS FRIENDS*
If your man has ditched his friends and has found his way into your social group and he practically changed for you --- You just might be 'wearing the pants' in the relationship. Be quite cautious of this because it can end up detrimental. It's one thing to have him around you sometimes and it's another for him to ALWAYS be around. Leads to problems in the end.
*MAKING DECISIONS*
If you are the one who has the final say on most decisions, you probably are 'wearing the pants' in the relationship. It can start from as little as a restaurant choice for dinner to intense family situations. Making decisions in a relationship and having the final say is a huge sign as to who wears the pants.
If your man has ditched his friends and has found his way into your social group and he practically changed for you --- You just might be 'wearing the pants' in the relationship. Be quite cautious of this because it can end up detrimental. It's one thing to have him around you sometimes and it's another for him to ALWAYS be around. Leads to problems in the end.
*MAKING DECISIONS*
If you are the one who has the final say on most decisions, you probably are 'wearing the pants' in the relationship. It can start from as little as a restaurant choice for dinner to intense family situations. Making decisions in a relationship and having the final say is a huge sign as to who wears the pants.
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WOULD YOU LIKE TO WEAR THE PANTS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP??
We prefer to leave that to the men in our lives rather than having to take up such the role. *wink wink*
Some people find it cool to wear the pants in their relationship. Seems like a whole lot of work to us.
To all the special people wearing the pants in their relationship, may you have the wisdom to channel your relationship/family in the right direction.
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BLESS
OLIANDLOLA
XO
WOULD YOU LIKE TO WEAR THE PANTS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP??
We prefer to leave that to the men in our lives rather than having to take up such the role. *wink wink*
Some people find it cool to wear the pants in their relationship. Seems like a whole lot of work to us.
To all the special people wearing the pants in their relationship, may you have the wisdom to channel your relationship/family in the right direction.
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BLESS
OLIANDLOLA
XO
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