Not every man that ENTERS into your life wants to STAY in your life.
THEY ASK YOU FOR SEX-
This is the easiest sign as some guys are just honest. They will openly ask to have sex with no strings attached. Many men do not want to commit and most times women fall into the trap of thinking if I give him sex it will lead to a relationship, sometimes this works for the lucky few, but in MOST cases it does not. In some unfortunate cases he is simply USING you for that SEASON OR PERIOD in his life where he is not ready to settle down.
The truth of REAL true love is; if a man wants you, he will not be content with the relationship NOT being exclusive. From speaking to some respectable men we know, they said they desire a woman who they can respect as their wife. Therefore this means if he can easily ASK you for sex he does not respect you, since no man who RESPECTS HIS woman can ask such a crude question.
THEY NEVER MAKE TIME FOR YOU – EXCUSES EXCUSES EXCUSES
He always has an excuse for why you cannot hang out in public. He always has an excuse for why he sometimes can’t come over. These excuses tend to be trivial such as ‘I have a headache’ or ‘I’m not in right now’, sometimes they are telling the truth. However if these excuses come with the other signs then he is probably simply trying to avoid spending QUALITY time with you that does not involve having sex.
DO NOT GET CONFUSED WITH THIS SIGN LADIES.
Even if he is spending time with you there is a difference between sleeping next to each other after sex and actually spending QUALITY time getting to KNOW each other. If you spend more time together with you clothes off than on actually sitting to TALK then be careful.
LEVEL OF EXPOSURE TO FAMILY –
Do not confuse him talking about family as a sign he is serious. Men are very smart especially when they want sex. They understand the cards to play to make women ‘open up’. They know that some women are harder to get into bed and want to be made to feel like the ‘casual sex’ is something more than that. These men will disclose information about their family, but really none of this information is SACRED to them. It is general knowledge and casual conversation he can easily have with the next women or other friends. They disclose this information as a means of making you feel happy which enables them to get the ‘cookie’ easier. If you want to know a man who really loves you and wants to keep you in his life then assess how well HIS family truly knows you. If you saw his mum walking down the street would she greet you and ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR POSITION in her son’s life or are you simply one of many.
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