"If FRIENDSHIP is your weakest point then you are the STRONGEST person in the world"
Some people are of the opinion that friendship is a really important aspect of life. But do we really need friends? Sometimes, they bring you nothing but trouble. Contrastingly, they may bring you fun and may provide support and advice when you need it. But remember, not every friend has your best interest at heart.
Friends are good, but it's okay not to have them. It very difficult to find true friends and most of the time it's only in difficult situations you know who your TRUE friends are. Real friends are able to shape you positively. They can help you figure out your priorities in life because people normally attract friends similar to them. True friends always help you through thick and thin and are always relevant during the lonely times in life *lol*. They can also give you a reality check if you are swaying out of order but they can also be your greatest misery as well. Similarly, we are products of friends who we have lost.
However, we all know that no man is an island. But sometimes, being alone can help you discover yourself and who you really are. It saves from unnecessary stress and as we all know, 'familiarity brings disrespect'. When you keep to yourself and mind your business i.e. maintaining a low profile, people are more likely to respect you. It really isn't necessary to have friends it's also nice knowing how to create your own fun and believe in yourself. Why must you always have a backing from friends? JUST KEEP DOING YOU and be aware of constructive criticism. THATS ALL!!
People forget we came into this world alone and we will die alone. No friend will be there with you on judgement day. The sooner you get use to yourself, the better your life will be. If you are the type to have a lot of friends, consciously remember that friends have the ability to either make or break you.
FRIENDS ARE FAMILY WE CHOOSE FOR OURSELVES!
OLI AND LOLA
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OLI AND LOLA
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