HOW TO KNOW WHEN A WOMAN IS NOT THE ONE?

As it's friday *whoop whoop* we decided to do a blog post to get our male readers buzzing!!!! 

It's a question males rarely ask when looking for their 'perfect' women who can compliment them 

through thick and thin.  After passing a certain age and you are looking to settle down or even just 

be in a long term relationship. This should be your NUMBER ONE QUESTION.

Truth of the matter is that there are many things men don't pay attention to when it comes to 

matters concerning stability.

FEEL FREE TO AGREE OR DISAGREE WITH THE POINTS BEING SHARED WITH YOU 

TODAY.

Constantly having to prove yourself to her - Surely after being with a woman for a while, she should 

know who you are.  She should be comfortable with your person, why should you see the need 

to continue proving yourself to her? Surely it must get exhausting after a while to repetitively 

do this because she is not comfortable with you.  At the end of the day, you'll probably find out 

that she is taking advantage of you.

Feeling the need to change something dominant about her - This shouldn't be the case.    

Obviously in a relationship, conflict is expected once in a while.  But if you are going out of your 

way to change her character, she clearly isn't the one for you.  If her mother couldn't change 

her, what makes you think you can?? Old habits die hard. You should love her the way she is 

and advice and correct her when things go wrong.  NOT going out of your way to change her.  

Fear of spending the rest of your life with her - If you are having major doubts about this, she 

surely can't mean the world to you. You are afraid of the unknown.  She  leaves you constantly 

thinking of 'what ifs'. That is very risky. This means the confidence that should be crystallised 

in the relationship is lagging. 

The words 'we' and 'us' does not exist - All she ever thinks about is herself and what she can 

acquire.  She is so self - absorbed that she has blatantly forgotten about your needs.  It's all 

about 'I'!! It's very easy to get stuck in one - way relationships but the handwriting is always on 

the wall.  She doesn't ask about your family, or issues affecting you. She is just immersed in 

herself.

THESE ARE THE 4 TIPS WE DECIDED TO SHARE WITH YOU TODAY!! HOPE THEY 

WERE INSIGHTFUL!! DROP COMMENTS AND LETS KNOW YOUR VIEWS!

OLI AND LOLA

XO