WHAT DO MEN LOOK OUT FOR IN WOMEN

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We spoke to a few men today to find out their views about how they go about finding the women of their dreams.

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LADIES LADIES LADIES...
Basically, facial attractiveness is always the number one feature that attracts men to women. 

Research has shown that 75% of  men indicated that a woman's face was a more important 

consideration than her body.



Also, majority of them mentioned the fact that they love appreciative women. They want a woman  

who cares and are appreciative of the little things they go out of the way to do for them.  They 

aren't  particularly interested in women who take advantage and most of the time request things 

that their father cannot even afford to buy them (loool). *Never understood women who do that*?



They love women who would bend over backwards for them. If they see that a woman is making a 

conscious effort to sacrifice for them and is going out of her way to bring steam into the 

relationship, by being a  good romantic, this goes a long way.  It also improves the steam in 

regards to the sexual aspect of the relationship.



Although personality differs sometimes, compromises need to be made sometimes. Men love 

women who can empathise and agree to certain situations even if she doesn't really want it. This 

reveals her survival and their ability to maintain social alliances.  It also shows that she can be a 

good home - maker and raise decent children.  It is a very attractive selling point. If this is your 

weak point in life, it's best you start making adequate plans to work on this skill.



If it's short term dating, most men said they would go for the body over the face. It's more of a 

priority to them. For men seeking one night stands, a hot body counts. *Oh well*... If this is what 

makes you tick in life, I'm guessing looking for ways to maintain or acquire a hot body is your 

motive in life. 

Different strokes for different folks.

A few queer men said they love women who wear RED. It's attractive because the colour signifies 

sex and romance. We thought that was a shady selling point. But oh well... To each their own. 

*wink wink*. It seems to us that the colour radiates some sort of steaming heat that they love.


Subsequently, they did hammer on the fact that they would love a balance of a playful, 

independent and an emotionally mature woman. Which man wouldn't ?? 



Guessing these are a few dating tips for the woman. Obviously you can't have ALL the qualities 

because no one is perfect. But there are ways to enhance the inadequacies (lol) e.g. make up, 

body magic and the works.. The personality can also be worked on with conscious effort. Don't 

give up.. If you follow these tips.. Your man would come knocking at your door real soon!!!!!



Wifey material these days is quite hard to find. It seems to us that women are also fed up of men 

and their antics sometimes. It's all well and good men picking and choosing what they look out for 

in a woman. Women to should do the same and NOT settle for anything less than their worth. If 

you are trying so hard to make a relationship work and it's not going as planned after strenuous 

efforts, chances are that it's not really meant to be.  Develop some thick skin and leave the 

relationship with your self - respect.

"WHEREVER YOU FIND A GREAT MAN, YOU FIND A GREAT WOMAN, YOU WILL 

FIND A GREAT MOTHER OR WIFE STANDING BEHIND HIM -- IT WOULD BE 

INTERESTING TO KNOW HOW MANY WOMEN HAVE HAD GREAT FATHERS AND 

HUSBANDS BEHIND THEM" - Dorothy L. Sayers

OLI AND LOLA

XO