TAKING A BREAK FROM YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Most of the time, it's all about getting the girl/guy of your dreams and NOT about how to be a successful couple!!!

"Ignore the risk and take the fall. If it's meant to be, it's worth it all"!!!

We all know relationships are HARD WORK. It starts off all fun and sweet, until it has to pass the test of true love. Don't be scared to take this leap, it's well needed sometimes to bring back the steam!!! So therefore, if this is what it takes for both of you to come back stronger and healthier then ....
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JUST DO IT!!!
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Go and Come Back

When you are pre - occupied trying to find the person of your dreams, you keep getting into the vicious circle of dating. Sometimes, a break is needed to have time to think if the person you are with is who you REALLY want to be with. Taking a break will bring you back to reality if the relationship is not really what you want.

Love/Hate

When you spend a lot of time with someone, you get to know them more and the positive and negative aspects of their lives. Sometimes, you might just need a break from each other for a short time. However, taking a break over 3 months or even longer shows that something is DEFINITELY wrong. 

A rejuvenation break is what we mean. Just time to get over each other and return back into the relationship healthier and stronger with a fonder heart. It can be seen as a couple's test. If it's meant to be, it will be and if it's not then that's it. In a relationship, 'ifs and maybe's' can't be ruling throughout. 

"A break is a good thing as long as it's done in the right manner"

Feeling Claustrophobic?

Men are mostly susceptible to this kind of break. Sometimes, frustration mounts and they clearly need their own space for a while. Even if it's just a weekend away from each other, alone time is always needed and it gives them an opportunity to indulge in their favourite activities like reading books, watching their favourite TV channels... Whatever floats their boat.

Time to think things over?

Guessing this is one, that everyone hates... The CRISIS! Did he/she just cheat on me???

Or something just as unforgivable. At this point, a break is clearly needed to think things over and decided if it's worth the stress going back or not. Especially because the trust is skewed at this point.

However, there a few signs to know if you are not in love

Your Partner irritates you

You think you deserve better

You are constantly looking out 

Constant Arguments

These are some tips to show that something is wrong  in your relationship.

Feeling Calmer

Passion is essential in a relationship but it can wear you out. A break can be needed for a moment of calm time so you don't burn out. This is a time when a relationship break can be really helpful.

Making sure it's LOVE

This is very beneficial. As the saying goes 'absence makes the heart grow fonder'. If you take a break and this is not happening, then surely you know the love is lacking. The sooner you realise this, the better.

A BREAK IS NOT BREAKING UP!!!

This is such a popular misconception. Some believe that once they have taken a break from the relationship, the relationship is over. This should not be the case, it's just time to yourself for a short period to find yourself. That's all!

"The BEST relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other".

OLI AND LOLA

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