WHAT TYPE OF MEN DO YOU FALL FOR?
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Unless it's mad passionate EXTRAORDINARY love.
It's a waste of time.
There are too many mediocre things in LIFE.
LOVE should not be one of them.
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Falling in love certainly can't be a mistake. Most of the time, your exes usually have something in common that made you fall in love with them in the first place. We all have different perceptions of compatibility with men. What you might fancy, someone else might be totally against your taste in men.
It's always nice to know the type of men that attract you.
- Do you fall in love with men that you are afraid to lose?
- Do you fall in love with men who have a lot of life and are all about keeping everything they do interesting?
- Do you fall for men with feminine streaks? Some guys love good grooming to the point it's more feminine than anything else and some ladies LOVE this.
- Do you fall for older guys/men?
- Do you fall for controlling men?
Different women fall for different types of men. These are just a few examples that could strike your thinking when reading this article.
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There is also a degree of chemistry involved when falling for men. It's always better if the chemicals are mixed properly before you get hooked on something YOU KNOW will not work out but to appease your heart, you love in denial. Love is such a unique experience that it's also important to understand how men think and how men fall in love. Most of the time, when women fall in love they glow with happiness and its all about 'I Miss You' text messages. BUT when men fall in love, it's a whole different ball game and most the time, it's not with immediate effect that they fall in love. A guy might not even know what it is about the girl he likes; it could just be instant physical attraction that got him hooked. Men appreciate women on a daily basis but won't be infatuated with all of them. But if he finds one he is really attracted to, he will appreciate her and will be bang right in the infatuation phase. How men fall in love can be a complicated process because they usually make sure the girl has fallen in love with them before they then make an advance. He needs to be convinced that you are hooked and won't be at ease till he is CERTAIN that the girl really likes him.
Falling for the wrong man?
The POPULAR MISTKE - "Actions speak louder than words".... Most of us have been a victim of this. However, it is important to remember that actions also lie. Be aware not to fall for womanising and manipulating. Men know that women can be fooled with actions and they sometimes play on this. SO BE SMART. Actions only speak louder than words when the heart is pure.
The fear of being alone - Companionship... Most of the time, it never works out because all you want is the dates, being with someone and maybe even the sex. When it turns out bad, you always end up playing the victim.
Looks - There is a lot more to a man than his looks. Don't fall for a man because he looks good and you think you being in his life will change him to suit your personality. This shallowness will lead you to shallow men. Keep an open mind and go with the flow. Personality should be your number 1 bench mark especially if you are looking for something serious.
Everyone has a past and everyone makes mistakes. But be wise when falling for a man. One wrong choice can be VERY VERY detrimental to you. And can sometimes go as a far as wrecking future potential relationships. It happens sometimes.
ALWAYS REMEMBER TO PRAY AND BE PATIENT BEFORE MAKING SUCH A DECISION.
Bless
OLIANDLOLA
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