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‘My husband and I have been married for 6 years. When we first met we had the best sex-life, chemistry and everything was like being on cloud nine. However, as we started getting comfortable and the kids came along, the beautiful relationship we shared started experiencing cracks. We did not grow out of love for each other, but we lost the lust that gave our relationship a unique spark and with time, we became sterile.

I started to notice this transition in our love life when we had a weekend alone in the house and nothing magical happened despite efforts made. This triggered my search for tips and tricks on improving my sex life and how to restore the magic in paradise. In my pursuit for a better sex life, I stumbled across www.oliandlola.com and the ladies behind the wholesome lifestyle website gave me helpful tips on ways to revamp my sex life with insightful guidance notes as well. The greatest advice they offered me was discovering my inner self and cravings which triggered my excitement to become a freak in the sheets. My now known ultimate secret would be to browse through the Panty Platter website. Be sure to check them out as I am leaving the rest to your imagination.’

-   Nikki and Ahmed 2014

LET THE REAL BUSINESS BEGIN …

‘Love passionately adventure often - Let’s go fall in love’

OliandLola, were able to help Nikki conquer her fears which then led us to starting a Lover’s Affair Romantic Getaway Series. Let the adrenalin fuelled action adventure holiday begin!

A ROMANTIC WEEKEND GETAWAY – Part 1

If you have thought about treating yourself and your partner to a blissful weekend getaway that is pamper filled and intimate, one which allows you to concentrate on spoiling the one you love *wink wink*, you have come across the big girl series!! Tuck in nicely and let’s blow your mind away with the correct ghen - ghen destinations that will make you crave a getaway quick quick!!

The OliandLola trick to making this weekend enjoyable, is picking the perfect isolated location that suits your interest, one which allows for the correct 'mingle'. We recommend that you find a beautiful luxurious location like the one we are sharing with you today. But with this series, it saves you the stress of having to find one because we have an exquisite range of deluxe destinations to suit various budgets, styles and interests so stay tuned to this series.

Once you have chosen your ideal utopia for you and your love mate then all that is left to do is indulge in the one on one activities that will bring you closer. Do not be afraid to dip into a champagne Jacuzzi and any other activities which would be outside your norm as the purpose of this weekend getaway is to revitalise and crystallise your inner spark.

Let’s go COSMOPOLITAN today – The Kivotos Hotel – Mykonos, Greece.

This exclusive destination is not for the weak hearted, it will make you hot under the collar!!

YOU READY?  We are taking you there now!!

KIVOTOS HOTEL – MYKONOS, GREECE.

Our chosen destination this week from our past weekend getaway with our partners.

Mykonos is a picturesque romantic island encapsulated by crystal blue waters and absolute opulence. The Kivotos 5 - star boutique hotel offers a refreshing live-life love-life package which is absolutely breath-taking promising you unforgettable moments of romance. It will having you in a state of bliss enjoying matchless sunsets and warm passionate nights. With its elegance and seclusion on the private Ornos beach, it is a promising location for an unforgettable experience.

As you and your lover seek to enjoy the crème de la crème lifestyle the Kivotos hotel has to offer, the intricately designed cosmopolitan stylish suites will surely get you and your lover carried away. The authenticity of Kivotos includes them taking care of all the details leaving you to enjoy what the location has to offer. Be sure to opt in for a gourmet dinner sailing lavishly on a private yacht viewing the indescribable magic of this romantic island. 

What will this cost me?

This sought after weekend getaway would cost a whooping USD 8370.00 flying with Emirates club class. The rooms range from $5.000 to $30.000 for 4 nights. This cost of love doesn’t come cheap, but will surely have you making memories that shall last forever. There is a free cancellation if that’s any consolation (lol).

PACKING FOR PLEASURE

Congratulations on your forthcoming trip! Packing strategically is fundamental to making your trip a success. Remember less is more, but pack tailored to the romantic getaway to set the mood right and also have you looking and feeling good.

Ladies checklist

• A romantic playlist to set the atmosphere
•  Sexy lingerie
• Beachwear
• Silk night gown
• Birth control method
• Perfume
• Massage oil
• A new outfit your partner has never seen

Men’s checklist

• Remember to pack your passport and sense of romance along with you!

Note: If a visa is required, a Schengen visa is what you should be looking to get.

OLIANDLOLA

OLI AND LOLA’S 3 signs He only wants sex

Not every man that ENTERS into your life wants to STAY in your life.

THEY ASK YOU FOR SEX-

This is the easiest sign as some guys are just honest. They will openly ask to have sex with no strings attached. Many men do not want to commit and most times women fall into the trap of thinking if I give him sex it will lead to a relationship, sometimes this works for the lucky few, but in MOST cases it does not. In some unfortunate cases he is simply USING you for that SEASON OR PERIOD in his life where he is not ready to settle down.

 The truth of REAL true love is; if a man wants you, he will not be content with the relationship NOT being exclusive. From speaking to some respectable men we know, they said they desire a woman who they can respect as their wife. Therefore this means if he can easily ASK you for sex he does not respect you, since no man who RESPECTS HIS woman can ask such a crude question.

THEY NEVER MAKE TIME FOR YOU – EXCUSES EXCUSES EXCUSES

He always has an excuse for why you cannot hang out in public. He always has an excuse for why he sometimes can’t come over. These excuses tend to be trivial such as ‘I have a headache’ or ‘I’m not in right now’, sometimes they are telling the truth. However if these excuses come with the other signs then he is probably simply trying to avoid spending QUALITY time with you that does not involve having sex.

DO NOT GET CONFUSED WITH THIS SIGN LADIES.

Even if he is spending time with you there is a difference between sleeping next to each other after sex and actually spending QUALITY time getting to KNOW each other. If you spend more time together with you clothes off than on actually sitting to TALK then be careful.

LEVEL OF EXPOSURE TO FAMILY –

Do not confuse him talking about family as a sign he is serious. Men are very smart especially when they want sex. They understand the cards to play to make women ‘open up’. They know that some women are harder to get into bed and want to be made to feel like the ‘casual sex’ is something more than that. These men will disclose information about their family, but really none of this information is SACRED to them. It is general knowledge and casual conversation he can easily have with the next women or other friends. They disclose this information as a means of making you feel happy which enables them to get the ‘cookie’ easier. If you want to know a man who really loves you and wants to keep you in his life then assess how well HIS family truly knows you. If you saw his mum walking down the street would she greet you and ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR POSITION in her son’s life or are you simply one of many.