*TO WED OR NOT TO WED*
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The Bond of two hearts for all of Eternity as a symbol of
LOVE, PARTNERSHIP, FRIENDSHIP AND GROWTH.
"GETTING MARRIED BEFORE 23 SOUNDS LIKE LEAVING A PARTY BEFORE 10PM "
PRO..... PRO..... PRO
The union of Man and Woman biblically dates back to the start of time (Adam and Eve); it is a
blessed union which allows two souls to intertwine and be one. If speaking in religious terms
such a union-ship is one which God saw as necessary hence the creation of EVE.
such a union-ship is one which God saw as necessary hence the creation of EVE.
Now in reference to the title of our topic today 'GETTING MARRIED EARLY???' getting
married young is not necessarily a recipe for disaster; if two people are in love they have the
right to wed at the legal age as age does not determine maturity. However even though this is
the argument for PRO we would recommend that if a couple are to marry young they have to
take into consideration key elements to a successful marriage such as finances etc.
married young is not necessarily a recipe for disaster; if two people are in love they have the
right to wed at the legal age as age does not determine maturity. However even though this is
the argument for PRO we would recommend that if a couple are to marry young they have to
take into consideration key elements to a successful marriage such as finances etc.
Marrying is not about age If two people meet at 18 and are still together till 22 and
decide they want to WED, surely 4 years of nurturing a relationship is sufficient in our eyes. If
the argument for AGAINST is that, from a woman's perspective, they do not get a chance to
enjoy their youth and they are departing from the single life before it is just getting good surely
this is a personal choice... NOT EVERYONE NEEDS THE PARTY TO START IN ORDER TO
KNOW IT'S NOT FOR THEM.
( This analogy is basically saying some people don't need to experiment with their lives they are
naturally inclined to be family orientated as they have no real desire to be out and about but
know they prefer the role of a wife and mother).
decide they want to WED, surely 4 years of nurturing a relationship is sufficient in our eyes. If
the argument for AGAINST is that, from a woman's perspective, they do not get a chance to
enjoy their youth and they are departing from the single life before it is just getting good surely
this is a personal choice... NOT EVERYONE NEEDS THE PARTY TO START IN ORDER TO
KNOW IT'S NOT FOR THEM.
( This analogy is basically saying some people don't need to experiment with their lives they are
naturally inclined to be family orientated as they have no real desire to be out and about but
know they prefer the role of a wife and mother).
AGAINST.....AGAINST.....AGAINST
It's seems to be the trend especially in Africa to get married early. There is so much to discover
to discover in the world these days. It makes me wonder why some people want to be tied down
by marriage and starting a family BEFORE they are even 23! wow
Yes not everyone is career orientated as some people are family oriented. But we believe there is
a certain sense of maturity that has to grow over time. It's only through experiences that you get
a certain sense of maturity that has to grow over time. It's only through experiences that you get
mature. Wonder how much experience a young girl before 23 has. Hmmmn... Maybe they are a
few exceptions... BUT STILL??
We think young ladies these days care more about the wedding (a day) and forget that marriage
is for a lifetime OR maybe because of the social status that comes with getting married.
However, some people get married early and get away with it. Subsequently, statistics have
shown that most young marriages don't last.
Before 23, you should still be figuring who you really are, the type of man you want and what
you would like to achieve in life. Once you have that mapped out properly, you are at a better
chance of getting the right end of the stick because your emotionally and psychologically able to
deal with the stress that comes with it.
As single birds, we have both begun to find ourselves and what we truly want to achieve in life.
It seems to the both of us that we are more career orientated than family oriented. But by the
time Mr. Right walks by at the right time, we will have a better chance of getting the right end
of the stick because we have begun to map out our dreams and aspirations.
As single birds, we have both begun to find ourselves and what we truly want to achieve in life.
It seems to the both of us that we are more career orientated than family oriented. But by the
time Mr. Right walks by at the right time, we will have a better chance of getting the right end
of the stick because we have begun to map out our dreams and aspirations.
OLI AND LOLA
XO
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