THE ULTIMATE -THE 100TH POST!!!!!

"THE BEST WAY TO GET SOMETHING DONE IS TO BEGIN"

Grab some coffee & have a great read!!! xx


"THE ONLY PERSON YOU SHOULD TRY AND BE BETTER THAN IS THE PERSON YOU WERE YESTERDAY". 
The Life & Times of Oli and Lola
*ALL - WIN*
OLWYN
'oli' in pictures

Stay winning 

OLI OLI OLI 

*SHE LOVES HER SHOES*
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*LOL-A- DAY* 
(Lolade)
'Lola' in pictures 

 Big hair don't care :) #Little Black Dress

Lolalegs :) Put them shorts on... Weather behaved itself!!
-GOLDEN SQUARE-


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YEP THAT'S LOLA IN A NUTSHELL
#abouther 
You can tell ... Make-up ain't really her thing ...
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Oli and Lola in 3 words - Chilled, Chilled AND Chilled - don't bring stress to their doorstep lol

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OliandLola.blogspot.com started off as a joke. We both always knew we would eventually have a blog but we just weren't sure how we wanted to go about it and if we were willing to take it seriously enough to turn into a business. One day in the library while writing essays, we got carried away and got into a deep conversation about starting a blog together and being business partners. It all sounded so great since our courses were quite similar, we already knew that we were heading in the right direction.

From then on, we started having meetings as to the type of blog we wanted and what our aims were with the blog as well as choosing the most friendly domain for the type of blog that suited our bigger picture. After a while (3 weeks) we started gathering content for blog posts and since we were new to the profession (blogging) we weren't quite sure how to blog and if people will like our blog BUT we overcame our fears and anxieties. 

THE REST IS HISTORY...
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We both asked God for direction and he did give us a clear sense of direction. We couldn't have made it this far without him.

Proverbs 3: 5-6
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths".

Psalm 32: 8
"I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you"
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AN INSIGHT TO SOME OF THE  MOTIVATIONAL VIDEOS THAT KEPT US ON OUR TOES DURING THE TRYING TIMES.

Eric Thomas has played a huge role in the success of this blog. His motivational videos on YouTube kept us on our toes because we knew and had a VERY clear picture of what we want our end goal to be!!!

*WATCH THE CLIPS BELOW*

-FOCUS- 

-ALLERGIC TO AVERAGE-

We can't thank you all enough for viewing the blog religiously because without you all, there is literally NO blog!! Thanks for the continued support. God bless you all.

"Little by Little, a Little becomes a Lot"

!!! #100th #100th #100th #100th #100th #100th #100th #100th #100th #100th #100th #100th !!!
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WHAT'S THE NEXT STEP FOR OLI AND LOLA?
"Teamwork divides the task and multiplies the success"
Making OLIANDLOLA a brand is certainly what we are working on slowly.  We are taking our time to figure out what exactly we want the brand to encompass and how were are going to go about it. We aren't about counting the days, we are more about making the days count. 

As T.D Jakes once said 'If you can't figure out your purpose, figure out your passion. For your passion will lead you right into your purpose'.

At this stage, we are both living by our passion and following it through with determination.


One piece of advice OLIANDLOLA can give is:

Whatever you can do or dream you can do BEGIN IT.

- BLESS -
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ONE DAY WE WANT TO ACHIEVE AS MUCH AS THESE GREAT WOMEN. 

LEAVE OUR MARK SO OUR FOOTPRINTS WONT BE FORGOTTEN IN THE SANDS OF TIME. 



*OLIANDLOLA.BLOGSPOT.COM*
Aiming to be your OL in OL Lifestyle blog

THANK YOU ALL
XO


*RELATIONSHIP TALK* - ONE NIGHT STANDS

Loads of women and men are into hooking up, 'casual one night stands' and all that.


"One thousand one night stands are no match to a single on life stand"

Some women go out looking for love but end up getting booty calls at the end of the night. Even beautiful, talented, inspiring women fall into this trap. We think that even though some of these women are relationship material they are making fatal mistakes in terms of attracting a boyfriend.

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Reasons why you're a one night stand
-DRESS SENSE -
Be yourself. If you are not a make up person don't over do it when you are going out. Just be you don't pretend. Everyone does not have to be a girly girl. If you do this, you will probably attract the wrong guy who isn't your type and therefore dating seems to you like a fiction movie.

PRO TIP 
Dress how you would normally dress and make an effort. Be true to yourself and your dress sense and don't dress up with a mind set that 'men would find this outfit more interesting'. Most of the time, this actually works.

- CASUAL TEXTING - 
Texting thats super casual is not always the proper thing to do. It can send wrong signals to the guy. All this "Yo dude wanna have a beer"? Can only last for so long because you might sending across the wrong impression of yourself; super casual about everything and not just texting. 

PRO TIP
Just be a lady. Act cool but not too cool otherwise, he might think you aren't interested in being serious and it could turn into a one night stand. Tell him how much you enjoyed his company and how you don't want a once off meet.

- FALLING FOR FLATTERY - 
His words got you tripping and this led to sexual advances after which he never returned your messages or even cared to find out about you. He's there like you are his friends with benefits and you are there like 'he's actually someone I can be in a serious relationship with'.

PRO TIP
Appreciate his compliments but don't let it come in the way of your thinking and morals. You know what you want at the end of the day. Keep yourself all ripened till you find the right person assuming he is not the one for you. He will respect you for this.

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Most of the time, one night stands cannot lead into a relationship because there is no obligations and also, the man might rate you as an easy girl!!

EASY COME, EASY GO!!!
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Reasons why you might want a one night stand.
Some people don't mind one night stands once in a while as it could be better than being alone, you could possibly get a good workout *wink*, good break from a hard day at work and just for fun sometimes.

If it's consistent, it is actually gross and can be very damaging to your reputation and what you stand for. With everything in life, there is moderation.

...REMEMBER...
"A real man gives up one night stands for a woman he can't stand one night without"

We think the best one night stand is Summer... It's like the ultimate one night stand!!! Hot as hell, totally thrilling and gone before you know it *sigh* 
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GOOD LUCK LADIES
OLIANDLOLA
xo

DAY 1 - LAGOS

OUT AND ABOUT WITH LOLA 
Destination 1 - Lagos City

Hi Blog Readers,


Get involved with me (Lola) as I share my vacation in Lagos with you all as the days go by. I might not update frequently but I will try my best to keep you in the know!!!

- DAY 1 -

Finally touched down LAGOS CITY!!! As you all know, I have got a lot lined up for the holiday!!! But today is all about self keeping!!! Getting my hair did, nails did, errthing did!!! My Cannon 550D is my new best friend taking it everywhere with me just so I can capture the good times :).

"You are your greatest asset. Put your time, effort and money into training, grooming and encouraging your greatest asset"

 Monday has been all about grooming as I arrived Sunday night. From tuesday onwards my schedule is very busy.. Seems like a busy Vacation. *haha* :) 


- NAIL STUDIO - 
(Eden)
Red Nails don't care!!!


I totally love doing my nails there because it's convenient as I live near by and the manicurist pays attention to detail. He just takes his time and he ALWAYS does a good job. Not changing my manicurist anytime soon.

-TOM FORD - 
(Sunglasses)
My summer shades staple!!!



I'm am basically living in the *Sunshine*. There's no such thing as too many pairs of sunglasses. Sunglasses are like red - lipstick, they change everything.


- OUTFIT OF THE DAY 






I love my African Prints!!!
Decided to be afrocentric and wear an ankara skirt :)

Lola  

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OLIANDLOLA


FOSSIL, CHILLIN, FOOD- RANDOM DAY

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Random wondering 
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How the day started
Started of the day trying to visit as many locations as possible as I was trying to help my cousin conquer the London underground loool which can be confusing for small town girl like her.  
We started off the day in Costa with a simple hot chocolate and croissant. We like to start our day like this as it gives us a chance to chill and just chit chat. We then headed to Nandos to eat for lunch and finished off the day with a cold drink from Starbucks. 

SIMPLE YET TASTY

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FOSSIL INC.

WE LOVE THIS PLACE

ITS CUTE AND THE ONE WE VISITED HAD THE FRIENDLIEST STAFF EVER.

Its an American store which is great for summer shopping.
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*If you don't know this store you need to get to know loool* 

They specialise in accessories e.g handbags, bracelets, watches etc. and if you want some cute accessories this is the store to visit. Fossil makes watches for several well known brands and have established themselves in a lot of countriesWhat we loved the most about this store was the staff they were supper friendly and easy to talk to; even though they were virtually strangers it felt like we were talking to friends

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THEY TICK ALL THE BOXES OF WHAT A STORE SHOULD BE LOL

*Friendly staff 
*Nice atmosphere
*Aesthetically pleasing 

WE LOVED IT

*STORE OF THE DAY* LOL :) 

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RANDOM MOMENT OF THE DAY 

While we were in the store the funniest thing happened we got talking to one of the staff members (in the above picture) and he invited us to a fashion show in August which shocked us. Goes to show be nice to everyone because you never know what type of influence they have. 

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OLI 


OLIANDLOLA 

XO

OLI IN LONDON - FASHION, FOOD, CARNIVALS AND MORE


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London London London 

The city that never sleeps
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Hello everyone 

While Lola is away abroad showing you Lagos City (whoop whoop)
 I'm gonna take you around London before I head to the motherland AFRICA and go to MIAMI. 

Now I love love love London, its full of energy and excitement - if you haven't been you need to visit.

What to look forward to... 
While  I'm here  you can  experience all my mad adventures with me. I will take you to some of the cutest restaurants, carnivals, and off course fashion shows, V festival and more
Taken by oliandlola
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*AND SO THE ADVENTURE BEGINS*


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WE WILL BE TAKING YOU TO SO MANY BEAUTIFUL LOCATIONS AROUND THE WORLD

- YOU WILL SEE IN TO OUR WORLD AND MEET SOME OF OUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS

HOPE YOU ENJOY OLIANDLOLA'S SUMMER ADVENTURES

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Get ready for summer madness!!!

You will love it!!!!
THERE IS SO MUCH ON THE WAY FOR YOU GUYS
THANK YOU FOR STICKING WITH US 

MUCH LOVE. OLIANDLOLA

XXX


#COUNTDOWN TO OUR 100th POST - THANK YOU ALL

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THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR SUPPORT SINCE WE STARTED THIS BLOG. IT MEANS A WHOLE LOT TO US BECAUSE WITHOUT YOU, WE COULD NOT HAVE MADE IT THIS FAR

GOD BLESS YOU ALL ABUNDANTLY
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It has been a bumpy journey that has begun to sail smoothly due to all your support that has given us the strength to continue to persevere and put in all we got. We will continue to make OLIANDLOLA.BLOGSPOT.COM the best Lifestyle blog we possibly can. It's never easy starting anything but once you get the hang of it, it becomes much easier.

Kindly continue to help us raise awareness for the blog in your own little way. We would be very grateful if you do. 

"There is NO duty more urgent than that of returning thanks"
Thanks for being part of 
OLIANDLOLA.BLOGSPOT.COM

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THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH
- BLESS -
OLIANDLOLA

XO


#COUNTDOWN TO OUR 100th POST - TRAVEL THROWBACK

"TO TRAVEL IS TO LIVE... NOT ALL THOSE WHO WANDER ARE LOST"

Taking you down memory lane.... When our travel section first started!!! These were the posts you enjoyed the most, you can now read them over again easily :)!!!
ENJOY!!

- CALABAR CARNIVAL -
 !!!!THE BIGGEST STREET PARTY IN AFRICA!!!!

CALABAR CALABAR CALABAR CALABAR CALABAR!!! 
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This annual festival is held in Calabar Nigeria. It is a festival which celebrates African heritage and blends culture with fun. The festival showcases African heritage through its use of music, beautiful costumes, vibrant make up and floats. The festival takes place towards the end of December going into the new year. It is a fantastic place to go to have fun as it provides a good atmosphere filled with energy and joy. 


This festival is highly anticipated in Africa and tends to have people from different countries in attendance. We recommend from previous experience booking well well in advance as hotels,tickets and things of that nature can become very expensive closer to the date due to the high demand.


Such a festival allows for adults and children alike to enjoy and participate; since we were young we loved attending as we were fascinated with the colours and outfits that we saw. Now as adults we appreciate the festival much more and also take interest in the other amazing attractions in CALABAR such as OBUDU CATTLE RANCH (WHICH WE THINK SHOULD BE ONE OF THE 7 WONDERS OF THE WORLD). 


The splendour of colour that is displayed during the festival can leave you in awe of the richness of African culture. The uniqueness of each outfit highlights the great work that goes into this festival.  The festival shows how the men and women who participate in making this magic toil very hard through the year; it is truly worth attending. 


PREP FOR DECEMBER --- YOU MIGHT SEE US THERE ;) 


CALABAR CALABAR CALABAR CALABAR CALABAR!!!
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Insider's City Guide - Cape Town - Dates, Dinner, Drinks and Dancing 

Cape Town is renowned for being artsy and 'chilled'. It has a wealth of bars, restaurants, and cultural activities available for every budget. Each suburb has its loyal followers. There's Claremont for students who wants to get drunk and raucous, Observatory for the more bohemian crowd, Greenpoint for gay bars and elaborate cocktails, and Camps Bay for big spenders and a 'beachy' vibe. This city guide's focus is on what I think is the best part of Cape Town, the CBD.
The CBD's main selling point is that there are more things to do in a smaller space with a place for everyone. Everything is a fifteen minute walk or a five minute drive away, so you can afford to be spontaneous when it comes to planning a day or night out.

DATES
There are plenty of romantic (and cheap) things for a couple to do in Cape Town's CBD.
The classic 'dinner and a movie' is made all the better at [the Labia Theatre] {the labia.co.za}. It's an independent cinema housed in a historical building, that screens art, foreign and historical films, as well as a few blockbusters. The tickets are cheap and the confectionary stand is fantastic (baked goods and alcoholic slush puppies!). 
To top it all off, they offer meal specials so that you can eat at one of the nearby restauants and then watch a film, all for R90. Make sure to take advantage of the meal special on a Monday or Tuesday, when the participating restaurant is [Societi Bistro] {societi.co.za}. It's the perfect place to take a date.
For a day-time date, try the [Iziko National Gallery] {iziko.org/static/page/south-african-national-gallery}, followed by a stroll around the Gardens and a stop at a nearby coffee shop. My favourites are [Yours Truly] {yourstrulycafe.co.za}, Power and the Glory, and [Truth Coffee] {truthcoffee.com}.


DINNER
There are plenty of restaurants for various tastes all over the CBD. [The Fat Cactus] {fatcactus.co.za}  off Kloof Street is a good bet for Tex-Mex and margheritas to be shared with friends. 
In fact, all of Kloof Street has a myriad of food options, from Asian fusion to NYC-style pizza. Take a walk or drive down the road from top to bottom and any place you choose is bound to be good. 
[Royale Eatery] {royaleeatery.com}on Long Street makes a mean gourmet burger, to be paired with craft beers and wines. Royale is another culinary experience made sweeter by a group of friends during a night on the town. 
[Lefty's] {facebook.com/pages/Leftys/190484801141942} on Harrington street has more of a dive bar feel, but the food is excellent and out-of-the-box. I recommend the beetroot falafel but I've heard rave reviwes about the chicken and waffles. There's an odd but great crowd to go with the odd but great food, so stick around for drinks at the bar afterwards.


DRINKS
Long Street is the place that comes to everyone's mind when they think of a night of drinking in central Cape Town. It is for bars what Kloof street is for restaurants. Walk down the street and you're sure to find a place that suits your taste. I recommend [The Waiting Room] {facebook.com/WaitingRoomCT} for sundowners and pre-drinks, as well as [Neighbourhood] {goodinthehood.co.za}. However, Long Street can be quite the tourist trap. If you can, bring along a local friend to be your guide, and don't get distracted by the sights or someone is likely to swipe your bag.
If the bustle of Long Street isn't for you, go a few streets away and there are more options. [Clarke's Bar] {clarkesdining.co.za}, [&Union] {andunion.com} and [Orphanage] {theorphanage.co.za}, all on Bree Street, are all fun. These bars can get packed, and some dislike their 'hipster' vibe but they'll never be as hectic as Long Street on a Saturday night.
While Lefty's feels like a dive bar, The Kimberly on Roeland Street actually is one. It is (according to its own claims) the third oldest pub in the country. The crowd is diverse ranging from students and hipster-types, to drunk old men and, to be frank, crazy people. If you're an artist, a writer, or just an open-thinker, here is the place to study all kinds of characters. Make sure to bring along a group of unpretentious friends willing to take advantage of the gin specials and monopolise the juke box, and the night will take a turn for the best. It's full almost every night of the week, even Mondays. Although no one talks too proudly about spending a night drinking there, most everyone who lives in town has done it.


DANCING
Back to Long Street. If you care more about the music than you do about ambiance hit up [Fiction] {fictionbar.com} and [the Purple Turtle] {facebook.com/pages/the-purple-turtle/361956140482485}, two bastions of the underground music scene. If you're a little tamer, try [Zula] {zulabar.co.za} or the [Manila Bar] {facebook.com/pages/TheManilaBar}. The Waiting Room is also a good place to dance on a Friday. Come early for 'Early Fridays' and dance with the art school crowd, and then stay for 'Uppercut Fridays' which kicks off later in the evening and is all hip hop.
Further afield is [the Assembly] {theassembly.co.za} on Harrington street, which prides itself on giving the best local acts in rock, hip hop and electronic music a stage. Sometimes they really exceed themselves and get a hold of top notch international acts (Foals' DJ set earlier this year, for example) although I'm particularly partial to our local indie scene. 'See You Next Wednesdays' and 'YOH! Saturdays' are always fun.
Once again, no matter where you decide to go, make sure to do your research first. Every night at every club is different. A quick look at a venue's Facebook page will stop a hip hop lover from finding themselves in the middle of a thrash metal gig. It also means you'll know if a club is going to be 'dead' before you get there. Another tip, make friends with the locals. Even when it doesn't seem like it, Capetonians are a welcoming bunch, especially when they detect a foreign accent. They'll be sure to direct you to any of the many hotspots around town.


HOPE YOU HAD A GREAT READ!
Khanya Mashabela
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L.O.N.D.O.N  C.I.T.Y

'When a man is tired of London he is tired of life; for there is in London all that life can afford ' 

Samuel Johnson



London is just one of those places that you love to hate as it's very expensive.  We always complain about the finances involved in having a good time in London  but it's still not enough to deter us from going every other month.



It's just beautiful, the weather seems to be better than up North (Manchester) and it's just one 
of those metropolitan cities with a lot of opportunities. Travelling for us is just as important as 
getting a good degree. In the world today, global skills and cultural experiences outside your comfort zone are a good selling point. At the moment, we are touring England and we are looking forward to sharing our experiences with you.


'London is a roost for every bird'  


We will be in London next week and we can't wait to share photos of the fun stuff we will be up to as well as SHOPPING. Can't wait *eeeek*. By the way it's always lovely discovering new 

places and meeting new people. If you have any suggestions of amazing restaurants we should eat at, night clubs, cocktail bars and any other interesting stuff you can think of, leave a 
comment below and we can tell you how it went and what our favourite places are.


'By seeing London, I have seen as much of life as the world can show'



London for us is our one stop destination for pretty much everything. From networking - 

shopping - hair styling - nights out. It's just where we have a good time and unwind after a busy month.


You'll be hearing from us soon as we will be sharing with you our experiences *whoop whoop*. Buzzing for Easter already!!
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BLESS YOU ALL

OLIANDLOLA

XO

#COUNTDOWN TO OUR 100th POST - ARTICLES THROWBACK

Can't believe we are almost on our 100th POST!!
Sharing with you all our journey through articles with YOUR favourite posts in one post!!! Proven to us by viewings.
*ENJOY* 
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HOW TO CREATE YOUR IDEAL RELATIONSHIP
"TAKE YOUR TIME BECAUSE RELATIONSHIPS THAT START FAST END FAST"



What does it mean to be in an ideal relationship?
If you think being in an ideal relationship means happy days forever without misunderstandings, then we would like to think that you are wrong. An ideal relationship keeps itself strong in the good  and bad times. The loyalty in the relationship never wavers. Always try to understand your partner because it's not always about you. We all have our selfish moments, but when it's beginning to consume your partner in the relationship, that's an indicator that something is clearly wrong.

"Find someone who changes your life positively not just your relationship status"


HANDLE DISPUTES IN A DIGNIFYING MANNER
During an argument, give your partner time to talk so he/she cane get the point across. Afterwards, take a deep breath and reply constructively. Whoever is in the wrong at the end of the dispute, needs to acknowledge his/her fault be corrected in love and the relationship can genuinely continue like nothing happened. Handling disputes in this manner in our opinion is a must must! It's hard to do this sometimes, but relationships are mysterious like that, there has to be a calm approach to amending situations and settling disputes. Relationships are mysterious like that. Lol! 



THE ABILITY TO TELL YOUR PARTNER HOW YOU REALLY FEEL
If your relationship is valuable and the love runs deep, this should come naturally. In some cases, some partners even though they aren't mind readers... lol can actually sense what exactly is wrong with their partner. I guess it's some sort of connection that grows over time in the relationship. Some of us suffer from trust issues but it should be okay to tell your partner how you really feel when it's necessary. Chances are when you do this, the relationship gets closer and in some cases deeper.

"Keep calm and build relationships"


HAVE THE ABILITY TO LOVE
What's life without love? It's incredible to love and be loved back, nothing is more awesome than mutual love. That's an ideal relationship itself because the feelings are mutual. Love whole heartedly with no conditions and your relationship will have a STRONG base. All relationships go through hell but REAL relationships with love get through it. Never ever underestimate the power of love.

PRAY
A couple that prays together stays together. It's important to be spiritually inclined in life because it creates a positive ora within the relationship with some supernatural power. It's also relieving to know that God has got you both and he will guard and protect your relationship. Don't undermine what prayers can do... It's the best way to draw strength from heaven.


TIME AND PATIENCE
Being patient can be hard sometimes, but in order to maintain an ideal relationship, you have to possess patience. Although it can be time - consuming, it always guides you on the best way to sort things out.  Sorting out issues becomes much easier with patience. Patience is an essential ingredient in creating an ideal relationship. Also, try as much as possible to stay true to your promises and if you know you can't, don't bother making them.


"No relationship is all sunshine, but two people under one umbrella can survive a storm together".

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WEARING THE RIGHT UNDERWEAR

Good evening everyone,

It's been such a long day, we are sat here with a brew writing this article for you. As we were on the tube on the way home today, we got into a conversation with an elegant and eloquent lady heading towards Kent.  As the conversation went on, she happened to mention a topic about undergarments. 



“Underwear can either make or break an outfit”
There is nothing more important that wearing the right undergarment appropriate for an outfit.  Underwear is essential to our everyday lives as women. It is one of the KEY aspects of getting dressed and feeling sexy.

Firstly, knowing your RIGHT bra size is key when going bra shopping. There is nothing more revolting than a lady wearing a wrong bra size which is either too high up at the back or there is nip/slip :(.Once you know your right bra size, there are 4 essential  bras every woman should own:
 T-shirt bra
 Push up bra
 Plunge bra
 Strapless bra

Recommended brands for full cups are BravissimoCurvy Kate, and Triumph. It is important as a full - cupped woman to wear bras with good support. For smaller cupped women you can pretty much buy fancy bras anywhere like Wonder bra,Victoria Secrets etc.Secondly, wearing the RIGHT panties under your outfit can make a huge difference to your outfit.  It is unattractive going out with your panty line showing or the colour showing under your outfit. 

Every woman should possess different panties that would work with their outfits. 
Some essential type of pants are:
 Period pants (Black)
    Seamless pants
Thongs
  G – strings *wink*

Lastly, if you are a plus sized woman , wearing girdles under your outfit can help enhance and shape you.  Once you have perfected the art of wearing the right underwear appropriate for your desired outfit, there is a higher possibility of the outfit looking good. Brands like SpanxTruimph and Debenhams sell decent girdles for body magic *wink*




Start saving for an underwear spree and get what you need to enhance 

your outfit leaving you confident and beautiful.

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GETTING MARRIED EARLY???

*TO WED OR NOT TO WED*




The Bond of two hearts for all of Eternity as a symbol of 
LOVEPARTNERSHIPFRIENDSHIP AND GROWTH

"GETTING MARRIED BEFORE 23 SOUNDS LIKE LEAVING A PARTY BEFORE 10PM "


PRO..... PRO..... PRO 


The union of Man and Woman biblically dates back to the start of time (Adam and Eve); it is a blessed union which allows two souls to intertwine and be one. If speaking in religious terms such a union-ship is one which God saw as necessary hence the creation of EVE.


Now in reference to the title of our topic today 'GETTING MARRIED EARLY???' getting
married young is not necessarily a recipe for disaster; if two people are in love they have the 
right to wed at the legal age as age does not determine maturity. However even though this is 
the argument for PRO we would recommend that if a couple are to marry young they have to 
take into consideration key elements to a successful marriage such as finances etc.


Marrying is not about age. If two people  meet at 18 and are still together till 22 and 
decide they want to WED, surely 4 years of nurturing a relationship is sufficient in our eyes. If 
the argument for AGAINST is that, from a woman's perspective, they do not get a chance to 
enjoy their youth and  they are departing from the single life before it is just getting good surely 
this is a personal choice... NOT EVERYONE NEEDS THE PARTY TO START IN ORDER TO 
KNOW IT'S NOT FOR THEM.



( This analogy is basically saying some people don't need to experiment with their lives they are 
naturally inclined to be family orientated as they have no real desire to be out and about but 
know they prefer the role of a wife and mother).


AGAINST.....AGAINST.....AGAINST  


It's seems to be the trend especially in Africa to get married early.  There is so much to discover 
to discover in the world these days. It makes me wonder why some people want to be tied down 
by marriage and starting a family BEFORE they are even 23! *wow*


Yes not everyone is career orientated as some people are family oriented. But we believe there is 
certain sense of maturity that has to grow over time.  It's only through experiences that you get mature. Wonder how much experience a young girl before 23 has. Hmmmn... Maybe they are a few exceptions... BUT STILL??


We think young ladies these days care more about the wedding (a day) and forget that marriage  is for a lifetime OR maybe because of the social status that comes with getting married. 
However, some people get married early and get away with it.  Subsequently, statistics have 
shown that most young marriages don't last.


Before 23, you should still be figuring who you really are, the type of man you want and what 
you would like to achieve in life. Once you have that mapped out properly, you are at a better 
chance of getting the right end of the stick because your emotionally and psychologically able to 
deal with the stress that comes with it.




As single birds, we have both begun to find ourselves and what we truly want to achieve in life. 

It seems to the both of us that we are more career orientated than family oriented. But by the 
time Mr. Right walks by at the right time, we will have a better chance of getting the right end 
of the stick because we have begun to map out our dreams and aspirations.

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MENDING A BROKEN HEART
"To fall in love is pretty simple, but to fall out of love is simply awful"


Mending a broken heart is a difficult process. It's never that easy especially if your had the wrong end of the stick i.e. being the one who wanted the relationship to last. However, the wrongest thing you can do to yourself is to create a wall and stop loving.


Here a few tips to go beyond the pain and try to mend the broken heart.

View it realistically and stop beating around the bush 
It's difficult to face reality in an unpleasant situation but it's always better to go through it and not around it. There is NO short cut with this one. You have to feel the pain and grief before you can actually move on. If you keep going around the issues, somewhere somehow they always resurface. It much better to go through the pain because it will only making you strong in the long run.


Learn to be independent again
You need to allow yourself time to find closure within yourself. Don't be quick to dive into another relationship. Have time to yourself and stop trying desperately to win your lover back. It hardly works anyways.. So what's the point? It's your job to fill the empty the vacuum and remember... the only way to peace and happiness is detachment. The thought of thinking your partner is gone is painful because you will feel empty without them but with your little power, you will eventually conquer the 'depression'. Focus on things that make you happy and have some ME time.

Laugh and Cry
It's therapeutic and these 2 emotions heal to a certain extent. Let's not kid ourselves here yeah.. We always feel better after a good cry or even a good laugh. There are psychological reasons behind this to show it works. Don't be scared to let it all out. Release the stress.


Remove all the memories of that person from your everyday life
It's a temporary measure to forget how much they broke your heart. Removing is different from destroying. You don't have to do anything crude, just keep them far away from you.  So when you are in love with someone else the memories will be a record of what you went through to get to where you are today.


Stay Optimistic
 It's not as easy as it sounds, but when you are feeling down and being negative, remind yourself of the good things in life and how lucky you are to have good people around you. Smile always, watch films and hang out with your friends. It always helps.


Be Understanding and Forgiving
Don't be hell bent on whose fault it was and wasn't. It's just not necessary and it's time consuming. 'Focus on the issues NOT the actors'. For example, did she take advantage? If yes, make sure you look out for the signs in the next relationship so you don't make the same mistakes. Obviously at the point, you wish you could take back a lot but you can't. Focus on making it not happen in your next relationship and motivation will start creeping in for your next relationship. What caused the heartbreak? Make sure it doesn't repeat itself in the future.


Lean on your friends
Your friends should be there to help you through this tough time and inspire you to feel good and move on. Talk to a good friend about how you really feel about the heart break and confide in them. If you need to vent, the VENT to them. Chances are you will feel a lot better. Just make sure it's a trustworthy person that's not trying to create a mockery of your situation and the person has your best interest at heart.


Staying friends with your ex?
Doing this is not practical. You need to move on. There is a difference between being friend and being friendly. Maybe later on life, you can be friends when all feelings have diminished. Until then, please forget about being friends with your ex.


Learn from your breakup
It's up to you what you want to make out of the situation. But it's in your best interest to make the outcome positive and learn from the mistakes made. Ask yourself important questions and see if they are areas in your life that need attention. Most of all, cater to yourself and fulfil your needs. 

It's not the end of the world.


LOVE AGAIN
Don't close up your heart. Love again and deeply too with the same intensity. At the end of the day, what's life without love? It is such a satisfying feeling and surely you can't be heart broken ALL the time. I don't think anyone has such bad luck. You will eventually find 'the one'.


Hope this was insightful!! Till we come your way soon.

GOD BLESS YOU ALL! REMEMBER ALWAYS TO LET GO AND LET GOD.

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GOD+HIS CHOSEN CHILDREN
GREATEST BATTLES ARE WON ON THE KNEES FOR 
NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE WITH GOD.





It's important in life for God to be your NUMBER ONE priority. As young women striving for 
success in the world today, we have to come to realise that our spirits need to be aligned with God's will. It's essential for  us to establish God's purpose because our lives are blessings and we would love to accomplish our creator's plan in our lives. 


 "PRAY FOR IT WITH YOUR WHOLE HEART" - WIZKID



When it comes to us chasing our dreams we always remember James 5:16 "The effectual 
fervent prayer of righteous man availeth much". Prayer is essential for everyone and more 
critical for those who are destined for great things and have the  ambition/will to go the extra 
mile . It is a humbling practice  which allows God's children to acknowledge where their 
blessings come from and show appreciation. It is simply a conversation with God. Prayer shows 
your trust in God to unveil all that we ask for. Always remember Matthew 21: 22 "If you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer".



*HARD WORK + PRAYER = SUCCESS*


"CHASE YOUR DREAMS, KEEP BELIEVING AND YOUR PEAK WILL BE YOUR BEGINNING" - WIZKID


When God pours out an abundance of blessings into your life, it will be such a profound blessing that what you perceive to be your peak will only be the beginning of God's works. The blessings that follow those who work hard and chase their dreams will change their circumstances positively.  The circumstances that we are born in or  we find ourselves in do no determine what will happen tomorrow. The God of Abraham, Isaac  and Jacob will "take you out of the miry clay, he will set your feet upon a rock and establish your goings" (Psalm 40:2).


*BECAUSE YOU HAVE NOTHING TODAY DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU WON'T HAVE SOMETHING TOMORROW* 


"GOD DO IT FOR ME" - WIZKID

BLESSED BE YOUR HOLY NAME 


Acknowledge the one who blesses; do not put your trust in man or in your own works for they 
do not last. In all things glorify God and give thanks even before the blessings come. Matthew 
6:33 "Seek first his kingdom and righteousness and all these things shall be added unto to you".


"NEVER STOP, FORWARD EVER BACKWARD NEVER"  - WIZKID


"HUSTLE AND WORK YOU WILL NEVER EVER LACK" - WIZKID


"MONKEY GO WORK, BABOON GO CHOP - E NO GO BE YOUR PORTION" - WIZKID



As you have noticed Wizkid Ayo - Balogun is one of our motivational figures in life. And he 
never fails to mention how grateful he is to God in his successful career.
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