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‘My husband and I have been married for 6 years. When we first met we had the best sex-life, chemistry and everything was like being on cloud nine. However, as we started getting comfortable and the kids came along, the beautiful relationship we shared started experiencing cracks. We did not grow out of love for each other, but we lost the lust that gave our relationship a unique spark and with time, we became sterile.
I started to notice this transition in our love life when we had a weekend alone in the house and nothing magical happened despite efforts made. This triggered my search for tips and tricks on improving my sex life and how to restore the magic in paradise. In my pursuit for a better sex life, I stumbled across www.oliandlola.com and the ladies behind the wholesome lifestyle website gave me helpful tips on ways to revamp my sex life with insightful guidance notes as well. The greatest advice they offered me was discovering my inner self and cravings which triggered my excitement to become a freak in the sheets. My now known ultimate secret would be to browse through the Panty Platter website. Be sure to check them out as I am leaving the rest to your imagination.’
- Nikki and Ahmed 2014
LET THE REAL BUSINESS BEGIN …
‘Love passionately adventure often - Let’s go fall in love’
OliandLola, were able to help Nikki conquer her fears which then led us to starting a Lover’s Affair Romantic Getaway Series. Let the adrenalin fuelled action adventure holiday begin!
A ROMANTIC WEEKEND GETAWAY – Part 1
If you have thought about treating yourself and your partner to a blissful weekend getaway that is pamper filled and intimate, one which allows you to concentrate on spoiling the one you love *wink wink*, you have come across the big girl series!! Tuck in nicely and let’s blow your mind away with the correct ghen - ghen destinations that will make you crave a getaway quick quick!!
The OliandLola trick to making this weekend enjoyable, is picking the perfect isolated location that suits your interest, one which allows for the correct 'mingle'. We recommend that you find a beautiful luxurious location like the one we are sharing with you today. But with this series, it saves you the stress of having to find one because we have an exquisite range of deluxe destinations to suit various budgets, styles and interests so stay tuned to this series.
Once you have chosen your ideal utopia for you and your love mate then all that is left to do is indulge in the one on one activities that will bring you closer. Do not be afraid to dip into a champagne Jacuzzi and any other activities which would be outside your norm as the purpose of this weekend getaway is to revitalise and crystallise your inner spark.
Let’s go COSMOPOLITAN today – The Kivotos Hotel – Mykonos, Greece.
This exclusive destination is not for the weak hearted, it will make you hot under the collar!!
YOU READY? We are taking you there now!!
KIVOTOS HOTEL – MYKONOS, GREECE.
Our chosen destination this week from our past weekend getaway with our partners.
Mykonos is a picturesque romantic island encapsulated by crystal blue waters and absolute opulence. The Kivotos 5 - star boutique hotel offers a refreshing live-life love-life package which is absolutely breath-taking promising you unforgettable moments of romance. It will having you in a state of bliss enjoying matchless sunsets and warm passionate nights. With its elegance and seclusion on the private Ornos beach, it is a promising location for an unforgettable experience.
As you and your lover seek to enjoy the crème de la crème lifestyle the Kivotos hotel has to offer, the intricately designed cosmopolitan stylish suites will surely get you and your lover carried away. The authenticity of Kivotos includes them taking care of all the details leaving you to enjoy what the location has to offer. Be sure to opt in for a gourmet dinner sailing lavishly on a private yacht viewing the indescribable magic of this romantic island.
What will this cost me?
This sought after weekend getaway would cost a whooping USD 8370.00 flying with Emirates club class. The rooms range from $5.000 to $30.000 for 4 nights. This cost of love doesn’t come cheap, but will surely have you making memories that shall last forever. There is a free cancellation if that’s any consolation (lol).
PACKING FOR PLEASURE
Congratulations on your forthcoming trip! Packing strategically is fundamental to making your trip a success. Remember less is more, but pack tailored to the romantic getaway to set the mood right and also have you looking and feeling good.
Ladies checklist
- A romantic playlist to set the atmosphere
- Sexy lingerie
- Beachwear
- Silk night gown
- Birth control method
- Perfume
- Massage oil
- A new outfit your partner has never seen
Men’s checklist
- Remember to pack your passport and sense of romance along with you!
Note: If a visa is required, a Schengen visa is what you should be looking to get.
OLIANDLOLA
OLI AND LOLA’S 3 signs He only wants sex
Not every man that ENTERS into your life wants to STAY in your life.
THEY ASK YOU FOR SEX-
This is the easiest sign as some guys are just honest. They will openly ask to have sex with no strings attached. Many men do not want to commit and most times women fall into the trap of thinking if I give him sex it will lead to a relationship, sometimes this works for the lucky few, but in MOST cases it does not. In some unfortunate cases he is simply USING you for that SEASON OR PERIOD in his life where he is not ready to settle down.
The truth of REAL true love is; if a man wants you, he will not be content with the relationship NOT being exclusive. From speaking to some respectable men we know, they said they desire a woman who they can respect as their wife. Therefore this means if he can easily ASK you for sex he does not respect you, since no man who RESPECTS HIS woman can ask such a crude question.
THEY NEVER MAKE TIME FOR YOU – EXCUSES EXCUSES EXCUSES
He always has an excuse for why you cannot hang out in public. He always has an excuse for why he sometimes can’t come over. These excuses tend to be trivial such as ‘I have a headache’ or ‘I’m not in right now’, sometimes they are telling the truth. However if these excuses come with the other signs then he is probably simply trying to avoid spending QUALITY time with you that does not involve having sex.
DO NOT GET CONFUSED WITH THIS SIGN LADIES.
Even if he is spending time with you there is a difference between sleeping next to each other after sex and actually spending QUALITY time getting to KNOW each other. If you spend more time together with you clothes off than on actually sitting to TALK then be careful.
LEVEL OF EXPOSURE TO FAMILY –
Do not confuse him talking about family as a sign he is serious. Men are very smart especially when they want sex. They understand the cards to play to make women ‘open up’. They know that some women are harder to get into bed and want to be made to feel like the ‘casual sex’ is something more than that. These men will disclose information about their family, but really none of this information is SACRED to them. It is general knowledge and casual conversation he can easily have with the next women or other friends. They disclose this information as a means of making you feel happy which enables them to get the ‘cookie’ easier. If you want to know a man who really loves you and wants to keep you in his life then assess how well HIS family truly knows you. If you saw his mum walking down the street would she greet you and ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR POSITION in her son’s life or are you simply one of many.
WOULD HE BRING YOU HOME TO MUM?
QUICK RELATIONSHIP ADVICE
When it comes to meeting his family, every decent girl should put themselves in a position to make them love her. It's always best to be cool and calm because it would give them a positive perception about you. If he hasn't popped the question yet about introducing you to his family, maybe you should work on your charm a bit more. However, consistently being the life of a party with your friends can also be detrimental to your relationship because he could feel that you are not serious enough and it could taint his image if he took a bold step to introduce you to his family.
Stay classy, be well mannered and have social skills. Most of all, be respectful. Every mother wants the best for their child and so they have to see the best in you to consider you being part of their family. Remember, getting married isn't about the man alone. It's about his whole family. Set standards for yourself in order to make you a better person if you feel you haven't particularly reached your goals in terms of your relationship.
Accordingly, some men might not ask for a very very long time because they feel you both have a solid relationship and he is trying to protect you from the dangers of his family probably because he is from a traumatic home. Or he could just feel that you are not serious enough to meet his parents and this is a bad position to be in because you may never be able to get out of that position in the relationship.
Most importantly as a woman, search within yourself to figure out if you are worthy of an introduction to the people that matter the most in his life. If you have reached this stage and you are wondering why it still hasn't happened, be bold and say "I'd like to meet your family" just to feel his pores. It can actually make him realize that you are very serious and you are interested in a future with him.
ALWAYS REMEMBER TO PRAY AND PLAN.
ARE YOU READY TO BE A WIFE?
If you are ready for marriage, the first step is to STOP dating men that seem to have no potential. i.e. Non - husband material. Pray a lot more than you usually do for God to give you your own husband and put you in the right direction. You also have to be ready to let love into your life and enjoy it. You must be able to take personal responsibility for your love life and do what is necessary to be happy. At this stage, maturity is key.
You need to start being visible to the right men. When you do that, you start getting your way and dating becomes fun thus getting you closer to achieving your ultimate goal. Make sure you are not holding back, give the relationship all you've got because that way you are slowly becoming wifey material. Use your years of dating experience to make your last relationship your BEST relationship. Multitudes of single women think they are ready to be a wife but the truth of the matter is that they are not emotionally ready. They still subconsciously think that the world still revolves around them.
Is there a right time to get married?
Everyone's time and calling is totally different. The harsh reality is that NOT everyone will get married. Some people are just destined to be single. But when you feel you are ripe enough to ask yourself this question, position yourself properly in the right place to meet the right person. Make sure you are strong enough to accept and embrace change because there will be a lot of this in your life as a wife. Be prepared for the person your are marrying to show you a totally different side of him you never knew. Be ready to accept all that he has told you about himself as you have decided to take a decision to get married to him.
Some people are 40 when they start asking themselves the ultimate question especially if you were 'unlucky in love' or you found love late in life. Whilst asking yourself this question, it's important to realize that in marriage, nothing is really ever private. Be ready to share your life with your spouse.
READY TO BE A WIFE NOW?
THATS ALL WE HAVE TO SHARE WITH YOU TODAY!
Bless
HIGH VALUE. CLASS GENTLEMAN.
HEY LADIES, HOPE YOU ARE ALL WELL.
Before we get into today's topic we have a little story for you.
Last night as we were making our way home on the underground we saw a man who, in our opinion, was the perfect example of a high value male. As we were casually talking we got distracted by this man who got on board the train; he was wearing a designer suit and carrying a very expensive Hermes briefcase ( we don't see that very often on the train). Now this man had us staring at him and completely starstruck (lol) and we both agreed that he was one of the most swarve gentleman we had seen in a long time. This inspired us to write this article for all you young ladies inregards to spotting a HIGH VALUE MAN.
So as we get into today's article we advice you to get comfortable as we give you 4 of our important criteria for spotting a high value man.
Now for some of you young ladies finding a good man is a difficult task as you do not seem to know the criteria for what defines a good man.
1. Appearance-
A man of high value ladies cares about his appearance, he understands the importance of looking physically good without overstepping the line and bordering on vain. Such a man knows that he has to be well dressed and never looking raggedy. He understands the importance of being clean and well kept. To check for how well a man looks after himself it can sometimes be the simple things that give it away: nails, haircut, clothing, and the way in which he carries himself. A self respecting high value man who is aware of himself and has presence. When he enters a room he is the type of man that women admire and men respect. To check for whether your man is far from vain and pompous, we recommend checking how he is viewed by his peers; a high value man should have the respect of his friends and they should know that regardless of how physically good looking he is he does not have delusion of grandeur. They should be reassured that he has respect for others and treats them as though they are on equal footing.
2. Good character-
Character is quintessential ladies when evaluating a man. His character reflects his values and moral compass. A high value gentleman does not believe in deceiving women, but has honesty and truth at the centre of his core. He values openness and shows appreciation for truth. Such a man is more trustworthy as he is less likely to participate in adulterous behaviour. If his character is good natured he won't be the type of man who simply makes promises, but he will be the type of man who keeps his word and knows that his actions are what people judge him on therefore he must be honourable. To judge good character we use the Josephson institute of ethics' 6 pillars of character as a guide to assessing a good man.
* Trustworthy - Is he a formidable man who people can trust? Does he have integrity?
Is he a loyal man who can be relied upon?
* Respect - Does he understand the golden rule of respect? Does he understand the importance of common courtesy?
* Responsible - Does he honour his duties? Does he understand the law of accountability and partake in the pursuit of excellence in regards to all he is trusted with?
* Fairness - Does he know how to be partial? Does he have consistency?
* Caring - Does he possess kindness, compassion and empathy?
*Citizenship - Is he lawful? Does he care for others and work for the common good of others?
3. Intelligence
Ladies this is such an important trait in a high value man, intelligence and good speech are such important things to look for. As young women we should be searching for men who a mentally stimulating; they should be able to hold a conversation without having to use foul language as a means of expressing themself. We should look for men who respect us through the way they speak to us, men who actually process their words and show keen interest in stimulating the mind and getting to know our thoughts and opinion on important matters. Now do not get us misunderstood we are not saying that this man has to be an Oxford scholar or that he has to be able to recite the English dictionary in its entirety we are simply saying that he should have some substance and depth.
4. Emotional control
A man of high value has a lot to think about, he can not afford to be emotionally unhinged. A high value man has responsibilities and therefore needs to be able to have mental stability. He does not let his emotions rule him or cloud his judgement. This is very important if you are looking for a guy that will help you build a home and create a strong foundation for something to grow. Also emotional control is important for preventing against domestic violence. A high value man does not use violence AT ALL, he is diplomatic in everything and would never threaten a woman. We got reminded of the importance of this after reading a tweet from a guy we follow on twitter. He was discussing the issue of domestic violence and made a statement saying that naturally men are physically stronger and if a man wishes to be respected then he should never threaten a woman or let his emotions dominate him and abuse women. This is an important area to pay attention to ladies because domestic violence is real. Also as women we should never provoke violence within men and think its okay to slap or hit a man.
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